When a relationship ends we tend to wonder where it went wrong. Where there
any warning signs that he lost interest? YES. But you were so wrapped up in
the relationship or with other things that you didn't even see it coming.
Here are 10 warning signs he is no longer interested. Or maybe these are who
you are acting. Either way it is time to take a closer look at your relationship
and decide whether you want it or not.
He hasn't called you for a few days - This
isn't necessarily a sign
that it is over but if you are use to him calling frequently then there is
something wrong.
Picking fights - Does he fly off the handle more than usual? Is
he causing arguments over stupid little things. This is often a bad case when
people are longer interested in a relationship but they don't want to be the
one to end it. Don't beat about the bush ask him out right if he is no longer
interested in the relationship.
Is secretive - He no longer wants to tell you where he has been or
who was on the phone. Maybe the phone is off limits to you. He disappears
for hours without an explanation.
He no longer refers to "we" but "I" - You use
to sit and plan your future together. "We are going to do this, we are
going to do that". Now it is "I am going to do this". You are
no longer included in his future.
He'd rather spend time with his friends then you - You have to fight
with his friends for his attention.
You no longer talk - once upon a time you would sit and have
discussions
from everything to the weather to what is happening to the ozone. Now he just
answers everything with yes.
Friends start asking what's wrong - Friends begin to notice tension
or distance between you.
More critical of you - "That's a horrible dress" Yet he
helped you pick it out only a few weeks ago.
Remember that theses are only warning signs and
in fact your relationship
may just be going through a rough patch. Talk to each other first before you
do anything you may regret.
