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Dating Tips for Men
Well, the tips below have been sent in by
women... (BATHE! wow!!!... me thinks this should be a cross dating tip!)
The Gopher says..
"STAY SOBER - DRIVE THE CAR -
ENJOY THE SPOILS!"
Never fails ;)
Bathe
This may sound cheeky but the worst thing you could do when going out on a date
(especially if it is your first date with her) is to turn up unshaven, looking
dirty and smelling. Women are the cleaner of the specious and will judge you
on how hygienic you are, after all you would be appalled if she turned up for
the date looking like a hippie that hadn't bathed for a while (no offence).
It doesn't cost to take a bath and make an effort. Remember bad breath and body
odour are an instant turn off and she will assume that this is how you are all
the time even if you are just having a bad day (hey girls have bad hair days
all the time) she won't see beyond your appearance.
Arrive on time
The worst thing you can do is turn up late. Turning up late will send out all
the wrong impressions that you definitely don't won't her to think. Women always
assume the worse and one of the worst is turning up late, not only will she
think that she has been stood up but will also think that you are unreliable.
If you are picking her up from her home then it is advisable to turn up 5 minute
before you are due any earlier she will be adjusting her make up or still getting
ready and won't want you to see her half finished and turning up late... well
just don't.
Be a Gentleman
Hold the door open for her, let her walk through the doors first, pull her chair,
be polite to her and people around you. Women like to feel special and by treating
her like a lady she will think you are fantastic.
Compliment Her
The first thing to say to her is you look beautiful before you even ask how
she is. Keep up the complements throughout your date such as: "your hair
looks nice I like the colour of it, your eyes are very sparkly etc.. But do
not go over board. A woman loves to be complimented, feel
sexy/gorgeous/beautiful
and that you are attracted to her.
Listen to her and ask questions
No body wants to spend the whole night listening to someone talk about themselves
or not listening to what the other person is saying. But you do have to get to
know each other. Ask her questions but more importantly listen to what she has
to say. There is nothing more that a women likes is when someone is interested
in what they have to say. "I remember once I was sitting in a restaurant
waiting for some friends. There was a man and women sitting at the table next
to mine and I couldn't help over hearing their conversation (rather his talking
of himself). I could tell it was their first date from what he was telling her
about himself". "I play Saturday league football, I like boxing".
He want on like this for about 10 minutes without stopping or asking her questions
and she was just sitting there nodding slightly every so often and looking bored.
That day left an impact on me and every time I have went on a date I have been
conscious of the woman and took an interest in what she had to say. This
is probably
the best bit of advice I could give.
Prepare
The last thing you want is to be sitting having a meal and the conversation
drys up and you are left for the rest of the night bored with each other. Think
about your date and what you would like to know about her and in return what
you would like her to know about you. Try and think of any questions that she
might ask you so that you can prepare the answer. You think that it is easy to
talk and that you will not run out of questions to ask or that you will automatically
have the answers but until you are there and in the situation you have no idea
what it is like. You can avoid all of this by meeting for a quick drink then
go on to see a film so at least you will have something to talk about.
Who will pay?
This is a really tough question as now women are more independent and like to
pay their way. I suggest that you offer to pay and if she lets you then pay.
If she wants to pay you can argue that you want to or at least pay for half
the bill. If she offers to split again you can argue (that is if you want to)
but if she insists on splitting then let her pay half.
The goodnight kiss
Some women prefer not to kiss after a date, others are disappointed if they guy
doesn't even try. There is no easy answer to this.
The only answer I can come up with is wait until either she makes the first
move or that you both know when you are ready. Watch for body language and little
touches but I would not advise sex on the first date unless she wants to.
I'll call you
Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and intend on seeing her
again. This is an awkward situation and most of the time the easiest solution
is to take her number and tell her you will call her but don't if you are not
interested. When saying goodbye just say "It was nice meeting you"
and wish her luck or you could just say good night, smile and walk a way. But
if you do like her and are interested then you have to let her know.
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