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How to get over being dumped
Virtually everyone has been dumped at some time in their life. I know I have
and I know how much it hurts. Rejection is like a severe pain something twisting
your insides. You may even feel nausea, headaches and even sickness. You may
even find that for some reason you are subject to every cold and bug within
a mile of you. Picking up the pieces is very tough. You will wish that your
life could go back to the way it was before he left and you will live in hope
that he will return. You may even feel that no body will ever want you and that
you will never find love again. This is of course nonsense but you will not
realise it until the day you are finally over him.
So, how can you get over the pain? How can you learn to live again?
How can you stop feeling that you are unlovable and unwanted and that fate
has marked you out for a lifetime of solitude, misery and bad luck? How can
you start to enjoy your new single life and start to have some fun?
The first step
You have to realise that he is not coming back to you. This is a painful process
and it doesn't matter whether you are young and have lost the boy of your dreams
or you are a 40 year old who has been left by her philandering husband of 20
years. The healing process is still the same.
Remember that you will get over him. It might not seem like that
right now but believe me in time you will.
Cry
Let it all out. You may cry for a day, a week even a month or two and when the
crying stops you will know you are half way there.
Talk
Talk to your friends and family. Talk about your ex until you have no words
left to say. You will know you are getting better when you are bored with the
subject yourself.
Get angry
Shout, yell, scream even punch a pillow (don't punch anyone though as you can
end up in serious trouble.) Let all your anger out. Then take 5 minutes to calm
yourself down by taking some deep breathes and not moving. You will feel much
better at letting all your anger out and feel even better once you are calm.
Look after yourself
You may be off your food, not sleeping properly, over drinking, smoking generally
not looking after yourself. With all the added stress this will begin to show.
Take long, hot scented baths, play music that helps you to let your feelings
out and allow other people to get close to you and to care for you.
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